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Objectification Dating — Surrender Into an Object

Objectification is a BDSM practice where a person is consensually treated as an object, such as furniture, a statue or a decorative piece.

Objectification is a BDSM practice where a person is consensually treated as an object, such as furniture, a statue or a decorative piece. Objectification is a BDSM practice where a person is consensually treated as an object, such as a piece of furniture, a statue or a decorative piece. It's a psychological form of play that turns surrender into something almost meditative. The appeal lies in the total release of self. For the submissive, being "used" as an object means letting go of identity, choice and expectation entirely, which many find deeply freeing. For the Dominant, there's the calm, complete control of treating another as they wish, within agreed limits. Objectification fits naturally into dominance and submission and often overlaps with humiliation play and bondage. It's a headspace as much as an act, built entirely on trust. What makes objectification on DateKinky different is that you find people who understand this particular headspace and the trust it requires. With 67+ categories you connect with those who share the dynamic. Create a profile and discover who wants to explore it with you.

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Frequently asked questions

What is Objectification?

Objectification is a BDSM practice where a person is consensually treated as an object, like furniture or a statue. It's a psychological form of play centred on surrender and control.

Is Objectification degrading?

Only in the way both people agree to. For many the appeal is the freeing release of identity and choice. It's fully consensual, and aftercare and respect surround the play itself.

What makes Objectification on DateKinky different?

You find people who understand this particular headspace and the trust it requires, thanks to 67+ categories. That makes it easier to connect with someone who shares the dynamic.

How do I find a like-minded partner?

Create a profile, select the Objectification category and describe your role and what you enjoy. Use the search to find like-minded people near you.

What agreements matter in Objectification?

Consent, clear limits and aftercare are essential. Because it's psychological, discuss beforehand what the play involves and agree on a signal to pause or stop.

Is there a community for Objectification?

Yes. DateKinky offers an open, judgement-free community of people who share this dynamic and value trust and consent.